I've found that Crystalized Ginger helps when I need hug-free, generalized reassurance. Comfort food for the ears/soul/larnyx.
Plus, defeat isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes it's nice to be reminded that you're human after all. If the goal is officially unmet, just let it wash over you instead of letting it swirl you around and suck you down. The self-forgiveness phase begins almost immediately that way. :)
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Date: 2004-07-02 11:28 pm (UTC)Plus, defeat isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes it's nice to be reminded that you're human after all. If the goal is officially unmet, just let it wash over you instead of letting it swirl you around and suck you down. The self-forgiveness phase begins almost immediately that way. :)
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