Well, most people seem "ho hum" about it because, very likely, they have dorky, embarrassing hobbies of their own. On the one hand, I'm glad that Mr. G doesn't find my hobby too embarrassing to share with his friends, but I'm finding that I do. It needs a context, IMO, and it's not the best first thing for people to know about me. Gay porn, sure - TV character gay porn, a definite NO.

I'm most upset about this one: he generously shared my LJ name with someone local who only knew that I wrote, actually, and whom I haven't spoken with since that revelation. For all I know, she doesn't care, but I'd have preferred to be the one to tell her about the derivative gay porn personally. Oh, and I also say that she's pretty in past LJ posts. Which is true, but it might seem stalkerish.