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Exciting day at the vet's office. My dog is officially fat! And I'm adopting a pair of "orphan" parakeets. Which means I'll be spamming you with photos of every single pet sooner rather than later. This will bring us up to five birds and proves I do have a maternal instinct, although it's not stimulated at all by my own species.

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So we're watching S5 Buffy, and...fuck: more Riley. He's nice. He loves Buffy. He's stubborn and has a bit of a temper, but nothing relationship-damaging. He looks like Howdy Doody (with really nice arms), but that's not necessarily terrible. Still, I hate him. I feel bad about it, but I keep hoping he'll DIE, DIE, DIE. I know enough about the future of the show and upcoming relationships that I'm aware he will vacate the boyfriend position eventually, but it can't be soon enough for me. Riley is making me gleefully anticipate proof of the adage "nice guys finish last." Why does this character vex and annoy me so? Well, I do have some theories, but I'm resisting letting Riley take over my brain even temporarily. I resent his very existence. When Riley episodes were airing, did people mostly love or hate him? FWIW, Mr. Glove hates him, too.

~~~

Life lesson: Pride goeth before a fall. Sprinkle hubris on top. And impatience...aaaaand a little more. Ignore for awhile, then serve cold.

I am of the opinion that more things should "goeth," rather than just "go." It's jauntier, somehow.

~~~
*the title of a book by Randall Jarrell, which I read as a child and continue to hold onto as an example of perfection on a number of fronts

Date: 2004-02-09 06:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jfc013.livejournal.com
I who love Buffy beyond all reason HATED Riley like nobody's business. I don't know if it was the blondness (I tend to ick at blond guys) or the nasty character history, but even the actor makes my skin crawl!

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Date: 2004-02-09 07:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
Well, I'm not a fan of his "type" either, i.e., blond and normal, but something about his almost-prissiness makes me want him to feel pain. I'm not normally like this ;)

Date: 2004-02-09 06:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] boniblithe.livejournal.com
I think for many of us, Riley was the boyfriend we didn't appreciate until he was gone and we moved on to ... other things ... which made us appreciate Riley. But too late. Now we look back on him with fondness, as of the boy next door, but we don't want him to come back and be our boyfriend again. We just appreciate him for what he was, when he was.

I think, too, watching the DVDs is like cheating because you can mainline the seasons instead of feeling the pain spread out over 9 months like in real time LOL. So you don't have the same amount of time to love, hate, or otherwise feel for the characters and situations.

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Date: 2004-02-09 07:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
Now we look back on him with fondness, as of the boy next door, but we don't want him to come back and be our boyfriend again. We just appreciate him for what he was, when he was.

That is a very lovely way of putting it. I will probably not hate him one of these days, as I feel that it is truly unfair of me to do so in the first place.

The Mr. and I keep asking each other why we weren't watching Buffy when it was airing, and a lot of it probably had to do with a general indifference to TV at the time the series started. Watching the DVDs has made a big difference in our response, I think. Where people complain about the series going downhill after S3 for a number of reasons, the Mr. and I are seeing the focus change, but in such a compressed timeframe, we don't really have time to get tetchy about it. We're just enjoying the journey and not feeling bothered that it's not like what's come before. So in that way, I think the compressed schedule might be better.

However, there are a few peripheral characters that seem to lead big, busy lives in fanfic (from what I'm told--I'm not reading Buffy fic) who passed us by like blips. Ethan, for instance. I might not have noticed him at all, had there not been people on LJ waxing rhapsodic about his potential. If we'd not seen him come and go so quickly, I might "get" what fans like about the character.

Date: 2004-02-09 06:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] isagel.livejournal.com
Personally, I hated "Captain Cardboard" (Thank you, Spike, for that lovely moniker.) when the show was running. Boring, boring, boring, wholesome, boring. I couldn't help feeling that he was an extreme symptom of Buffy's denial of the darkness within herself, representing a normalcy she wasn't made to have. Spike, again, was right when he said she needed a little monster in her man, and I read Riley as an attempt on her part to pretend that wasn't so. The problem with that is of course that I suspect the show wanted Buffy's need for the bad and dangerous in her romantic partners to come across as something unhealthy - hence Riley as the normal, stable boyfriend who offers possibilities for healing - while I just found it fascinating and hot. Riley couldn't hold a candle to either Angel or Spike, and if the producers wanted him to come across as a viable alternative, they certainly went wrong somewhere along the way.

Also, I never understood the Angel/Riley slash. It's existence just leaves me baffled.

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Date: 2004-02-09 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
See, I think that's very interesting, because it's been my assumption that they want us to notice how boring and uninteresting he is, just as uber-normalcy is boring and uninteresting. Perhaps I am naive in thinking that the show is nearly 100% subversive in mode and intent. This is why I'm excited about the big scholarly Buffy con happening here in March ;)

Also, I never understood the Angel/Riley slash. It's existence just leaves me baffled.

In a word: ew.

I haven't read Buffy fic. I did start one loooooong one recommended by Jacyn, but it was Spike/Xander, and I just don't buy it.


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Date: 2004-02-09 08:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] isagel.livejournal.com
I think Riley is problematic because the PTB are sending us mixed messages about normalcy the entire time he is there. On the one hand, he is set up as the good guy who can give the heroine the sane, safe, *clean* love she ought to want - most clearly evidenced in the ep where Faith is in Buffy's body and offers Riley all sorts of kinky sex, only to be truly, deeply touched when he opts for sweet vanilla flavour. Riley's brand of normal is very clearly showcased as of the good in that scene. On the other hand, at the same time Spike is constantly dangling the dangerous and perverted in front of both the audience and Buffy, and making it look damn good. What he points out to Buffy is a passion that dares to touch the dark side of human existence, and which because of that reaches deeper than anything Riley could offer her. Is it sane? - Of course not. But the force of it says that sanity is overrated and guys like Riley are living only half lives. So the message is double, and gets perhaps more so when Riley himself starts chasing the darkness to understand its appeal for Buffy. Though I too think of BtVS as a deeply subversive show, I really don't know what they were trying to say there.

When it comes to fanfic, my Buffyverse interests were always more focused on Angel. I like Angel/Spike, or indeed all types of stories centred around the dysfunctional family unit of Angel/Darla/Dru/Spike, and I can enjoy good Wesley stories. The only things I wrote myself that I'm proud of, though, are Angel/Doyle. Doyle was my boy, identification-wise. I very much liked writing him.

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Date: 2004-02-09 08:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
You're very right, re: the Faith-Buffy bodyswitch sex... Huh. All I can say is that I'd rather fuck Spike, and anyone I care to associate with would want that, too ;)

I found Angel reasonably physically attractive in the first season of Buffy, but since then he's really too bulky for my taste. However, I like the character very much, completely independent of Buffy. I like him better on his own show than I ever did on Buffy.

I haven't the foggiest who Doyle is/was (except I know he's dead, and saw a tiny bit of him in the 100th Angel ep). Not only did he seem to be a favorite of the characters, but fans, as well, so I'm looking forward to eventually meeting him. Was he on Buffy, or just Angel? We're going to be playing catch-up with Angel soon, too.

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Date: 2004-02-09 09:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] isagel.livejournal.com
I'm not that big on Angel physically, either, but I had this period when I was completely fascinated by his character. All that angst, you know. I started writing some pretty horrible, philosophical stories featuring him that thankfully will never see the light of day. *g*

Doyle was only on Angel. He is a half-demon with an Irish accent(gotta love that Jossverse love of accents *g*) whom the Powers That Be send visions of people in need of help. In the first episode they tell him to seek out Angel and get him to help fight the evil he sees. Hence the whole Angel Investigations thing. Doyle is funny, laid-back and chatty where Angel is shut off from the world, but he carries around a lot of self-loathing because of his demon side, which didn't manifest itself till he was twenty-one, and the way he handled that. He used to be a third grade teacher, married to a woman he loved, but by the time the show starts he has no job, his wife has left him, and he's drowning in gambling debts. He drinks too much, hits on Cordelia, talks dreamily about Angel in his leather coat and finally dies a hero's death. And he's pretty much adorable. *g*

Gratuitous linkage:

Some Doyle pics:

http://www.haelen.org/cleocalliope/CastPics/Doyle/Doyle7.gif
http://www.haelen.org/cleocalliope/CastPics/Doyle/Glenn.jpg
http://www.haelen.org/cleocalliope/CastPics/Doyle/Doyle1.jpg

And my fic Till the Moon Has Left the Sky which was rather popular when new, though I think I've come a way as a writer since then:

http://www.haelen.org/cleocalliope/BAfanfic/TillTheMoon_Isagel.html

Buffy & Angel 4Eva!

Date: 2004-02-09 07:02 pm (UTC)
ext_6837: (valsig faith)
From: [identity profile] valentinemichel.livejournal.com
Riley was too "normal." Even with his participation in The Initiative, he remained the anti-Angel. No edges. It's hard to make an audience *like* the solid citizen when you've primed it to root for the fringe dweller.

Re: Buffy & Angel 4Eva!

Date: 2004-02-09 07:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
Yes! That's what I probably would have said in my planned anti-Riley treatise, except it would have taken a lot more space and been less coherent ;)

As I said in reply to [livejournal.com profile] isagel, above, I've just sort of been assuming that Joss and Marti and the rest want us to think freaks are better and more interesting than normal people--or are at least a very valid and viable alternative. I'm of the opinion that I'm supposed to hate Riley even though I know he's perfectly okay.

Date: 2004-02-09 07:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pun.livejournal.com
I do have a maternal instinct, although it's not stimulated at all by my own species.

Heh. I hear ya'. May I quote you?

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Date: 2004-02-09 07:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
Why, yes, you may. Because animals? They cry out for my love. Humans? Not so much.

I have never been able to baby-talk to an actual baby. I find it profoundly embarrassing. Humiliating, even. For both me and the baby, actually.

But I have special songs I sing to my pets, and cutesy names and...god. I'll just save it all for a hideously saccharine pet post tomorrow after I pick up the new kids.

Date: 2004-02-09 07:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] timian.livejournal.com
It's not just you. Riley had all the personality of a boiled egg.

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Date: 2004-02-09 07:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
Except I like boiled eggs ;)

Date: 2004-02-09 07:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] calliope1975.livejournal.com
Riley's one blah boring blonde boy.

My cat was put on the Atkins diet for being overweight! I have to buy special protein-rich food now. She's a chunk.

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Date: 2004-02-09 08:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
Whenever Riley and Buffy get it on, I can't help thinking that it's fake, since he's obviously a Ken doll and only has a damn useless bump.

Hee! Atkins for cats! Our dog is lazy, very nervous, and doesn't know how to play with people (it frightens him). I want to get him a dog friend to play with to get some exercise, and the vet agrees that would work well, which makes Mr. Glove feel ganged up on...ha! I will have the most pets of anyone!!

Date: 2004-02-09 07:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wickedripeplum.livejournal.com
Most people seemed to hate Riley with a firey passion or think he was just ok. He was so frat boy and it just hurt. I wanted to like him too, since I hated Buffy/Angel and Angel in general until he got his own show.

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Date: 2004-02-09 08:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
I do know that she ends up with Spike (for awhile, anyway), and I'm really looking forward to that, though I have to wonder if that's coloring my perceptions of Riley. I adore Spike. But even if I didn't, I'm pretty sure I'd hate Riley and feel like a bad person for doing so.

Buffy/Angel passed quickly for me, since I was watching it in huge chunks of DVD-viewing. It seemed like an important thing for Buffy while it was going on, but...not that important later. Like most first loves. It doesn't seem like the show dwells on the relationship that much, but I think that is probably partly due to the speed at which we're seeing the episodes.

I started watching Angel only this season, as we were midway through the DVDs of Buffy and I needed more Jossverse. I am enjoying the season thoroughly, so it's very amusing to me to see people complaining about how Angel sucks now.

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Date: 2004-02-10 12:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wickedripeplum.livejournal.com
Well I was waiting/dreaming eagerly for Buffy/Spike since mid season 4 when it originally aired, so I don't think you actually have to know what happens in the future to have that color your Riley hate. It just seemed right in a way that Buffy/Riley never could to me, they just had such good chemistry. Once they started the Spike's crush it seemed that they would have to eventually hook up. Otherwise why would they devote so much time to it, it would be such a waste.

And even if you didn't believe that Spike and Buffy would eventually happen, the show was always comparing Spike and Riley. And generally Spike came out looking better.

It doesn't seem like the show dwells on the relationship that much, but I think that is probably partly due to the speed at which we're seeing the episodes.

That's interesting, I wonder if was just fandom that was so obsessed with it. Or that I lingered on it too much since I was repulsed by it (by the end of season 2 the Buffy/Angel love theme literally made me nauseous). And then of course when I got my Buffy/Spike wish, I was living with a hardcore Buffy/Angel shipper so would never hear the end of it. Then again, long after all the other original ships were gone never to be mentioned again, Buffy/Angel stuff would crop up in the oddest places.

I am enjoying the season thoroughly, so it's very amusing to me to see people complaining about how Angel sucks now.

That's kind of how I feel about season 6 Buffy. All I heard on the boards was whining about how bad it was and I enjoyed it quite a bit.

Date: 2004-02-09 07:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stone-princess.livejournal.com
The Animal Family was my favorite book for years and years. I should read it again.

"Potato-nose" is the only way Riley is refered to in my house.

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Date: 2004-02-09 08:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velvetglove.livejournal.com
And this is another reason for our impending nuptials.

Did you ever read The Light Princess by George MacDonald? Also illustrated by Maurice Sendak, and thus inextricably linked in my mind. My other mythic-love book from the very early years...

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Date: 2004-02-13 08:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stone-princess.livejournal.com
I don' thtink I've ever heard of it. I'll look for it this weekend.

Date: 2004-02-09 09:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] metal-dog5.livejournal.com
I think most people were anti-Riley. I would have much preferred to see Willow and Riley hook up, as they had much better chemistry. But the writers were hell bent on making Willow gay.

Even Spike had better chemistry with Riley than Buffy did.

Then again, Spike has great chemistry with all sorts of inanimate objects ;D

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Date: 2004-02-09 11:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wickedripeplum.livejournal.com
Mmm, Spike/Crypt Door, how I long for your glorius hotness.

Date: 2004-02-10 12:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] georgeh.livejournal.com
I very much enjoyed The Initative part of Buffy -- it was totally unexpected for me. However, I didn't ever care much for Riley. Still, in my mind, Buffy/anyone was better than Buffy/Angel so I didn't hate Riley as much as I could have. He's not a bad fellow; he's just boring. Sure, it's what Buffy ought to have, but could you imagine if they'd stayed together? It would have been Buffy the Boring.

But they still make you ping a bit for him when he leaves.

Buffy/Spike is so much better.



I never saw any slash (or lesbianism) in Buffy. Not even when they started beating us over the head with Willow/Tara. I think Joss is the only person in the world capable of making me dislike a canon gay couple. I'll take Oz/Willow over Willow/anygirl ANYday.


Spike/Andrew has so much potential.

Date: 2004-02-10 06:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tobyfan.livejournal.com
I wouldn't say I *hated* Riley but I thought he was completely wrong for Buffy. And I sort of had (still do) a thing for Spike. And I never thought Spike and Buffy would get together. I really didn't, but I still wanted Riley out of the way. *G*

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